美国大学申请 太考验孩子心态了

四年来一直很自觉很努力的孩子，被据了之后，眼看着这个月学校成绩就跌下来。。。看到这篇reddit的帖子，深深理解以他们的年龄和经历，难以接受自己的付出和努力没有等价的回报。
即使我们父母从来没有把IVY当作目标，觉得州立已经可以了，但也知道孩子为什么失望，为什么暂时失去了学习的动力。
今天算是申请季基本结束，希望大家的娃都能有好运。
https://www.reddit.com/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/1s3xwhy/ivy_day_is_the_only_thing_that_can_save_me_now/
genuinely i don''t know what i did wrong. its like i put so much work in these past 4 years and when people doubted me i told myself i would prove them wrong when my decisions came out. But when it comes to it, i guess they were right, and I think that hurts the most. Its not that I mind going to my state school, i just hate what it entails. it means that all the shit I have gone through for the past 4 years, averaging 4 hours of sleep a day, constantly worrying about what more I could do, was a waste and I have nothing to show for it. I hate that people say "you''ll end up where you belong". In a way I''ve always believed it but I don''t know if I do anymore. And sometimes rejection isn''t redirection... its just a rejection and I cant even read my letters. I''ve genuinely been crying nonstop for hours and it almost feels like I''m living a fever dream. Im just laying it bed and I can''t even tell the passing of time and its the weirdest feeling i''ve had. I''m looking at all the hw I have due tmr and I genuinely can''t decide if its worth it. I''ve spent the past 17 years of my life worrying about deadlines and clearly its amounted to nothing. And its worse because my parents are so kind but I know they''re sad too. I wish I could make them proud. Thats all I wanted to do. I wanted to make them proud and prove everyone else wrong but ig life doesn''t always work out that way.
ig its not over till its over so I will see you guys on tuesday (and tomorrow) for the last decision because its my last hope and after that i don''t even know where I''m going. But i can''t open these fuckass letters anymore. its like each time i see a rejection my heart breaks just a bit more. please please please please all i ask for in one acceptance out of all the schools that are coming out. and i''m really sorry for the rant i''m just down in the dumps. its been a pleasure stressing with you all.